In both our professional and personal lives, it’s easy to fall into the trap of believing that our circumstances are the driving force behind our success—or lack thereof. We look around at the challenges we face, the resources we don’t have, or the timing that doesn’t seem to be in our favor, and we feel like victims of our situations.

But what if we shifted our perspective? What if we stopped seeing ourselves as products of our circumstances and started recognizing that, instead, we are products of the decisions we make every day?

We often hear stories of people who’ve overcome tremendous odds—people who came from poverty, faced adversity, or experienced setbacks—but the one thing they all have in common is that, despite their circumstances, they made decisions that changed their path. They didn’t let their past define them. They chose a different narrative.

And this isn’t just about making bold, life-altering choices. It’s about the small, seemingly insignificant decisions that pile up over time—how we choose to respond to challenges, how we choose to treat others, how we choose to invest in our personal growth, or how we choose to show up for our goals, even when the odds are against us.

When we look at our lives through the lens of choice, we begin to understand that we have control. It's not our job title, bank account balance, or the setbacks we've experienced that define us. It's how we choose to move forward from those things that shapes who we are.

For example, take someone who’s been passed over for a promotion at work. It’s easy to feel stuck, frustrated, and bitter. But what if, instead of focusing on the unfairness of the situation, they decided to view it as an opportunity for growth? They could invest in new skills, network with mentors, or even explore a career pivot. Those decisions would set them on a new path, regardless of their current circumstances.

The beauty of this concept is that it’s not about ignoring real challenges or pretending that everything is always within our control. Life is unpredictable, and sometimes things truly are out of our hands. But even then, how we respond to those circumstances—the decisions we make in those moments—becomes the true test of our character and our future.

So let’s be real: every decision we make has power. We may not always make the “right” decision, but we can always learn and adjust. It’s not about perfection—it’s about progress. And in a world that often feels uncertain, that’s something we do have the power to influence.

Next time we’re feeling stuck or overwhelmed, let’s ask ourselves: What decision can I make today that will move me closer to where I want to be tomorrow?
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Because the truth is, we are not defined by the hand we’re dealt, but by the decisions we make with it.

Truly,
Trish

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Ever felt like giving up after countless rejections? I’ve been there. Over 100 times, my resume got rejected. And trust me, it crushed me every single time. 😔 The doubts, the self-talk, the "what's wrong with me?"... it was HARD.

But instead of letting those rejections define me, I chose to learn, grow, and keep pushing forward. Each "no" brought me closer to the "yes" that would change everything. 💪🏽

In this video, I share how I managed the heartbreak of failure, the mindset shift I needed, and the small but powerful steps that helped me finally land a job I love. If you’re in that place right now, know that your journey isn’t over. Rejections don’t define your worth—they just redirect you. ✨

Keep going. Your success is closer than you think💥

Truly,
Trish

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How many times have we found ourselves waiting for that "perfect opportunity" to knock on our door? Maybe it’s a promotion we think we deserve, or a project we hope will come our way. We wait, we hope, and sometimes we wonder if it will ever happen.

But here’s a truth that took me years to realize: we can’t always wait for the right opportunity to show up—we need to create it ourselves.

The reality is, opportunities rarely come to those who simply wait for them. If we want to see growth in our careers, whether it's a leadership role, a dream project, or even a side hustle that could become something bigger, we must be the ones to make the first move. It’s not always easy, and it doesn’t always look like we expect it to, but creating our own opportunities is often the key to unlocking our full potential.

Here’s how we can create our own opportunities:

1. Don’t be afraid to take the first step.
   It’s easy to think that someone will offer us a golden ticket, but chances are, we will need to build that ticket ourselves. Whether it’s taking on a new project at work, learning a new skill, or reaching out to someone we admire--the first step is always the hardest. But it’s also the most important.
2. Make connections before you need them.
   We all know networking is crucial, but it’s easy to neglect it when we’re not actively looking for a job. Don’t wait until you need something to start building relationships. Make connections with people who inspire us, share our values, and can help us grow. When opportunities arise, those relationships will be the foundation we can lean on.
3. Look for gaps and fill them.
   Sometimes, the best opportunities aren’t the ones we’ve been waiting for, but the ones we create by identifying gaps around us. Is there a problem in your organization, team, or community that hasn’t been addressed yet? If we spot it, there’s a chance for us to step up and take charge. Innovation doesn’t wait for permission; it’s born out of action.
4. Embrace failure as part of the journey.
   Waiting for the right opportunity often feels like playing it safe, but playing it safe doesn’t lead to growth. We have to be willing to take risks and fail, over and over again, to create the opportunities we want. Failure is simply feedback that helps us learn, adjust, and move forward stronger.
5. Be proactive, not reactive.
   Waiting for opportunities means we’re reacting to the world around us. Instead, let’s take charge of our careers by being proactive. Set goals, identify milestones, and work toward them every single day. Whether it’s learning a new skill or taking on a leadership role, we can always find ways to shape our own paths.

The truth is, we can’t wait around for the world to hand us success. We need to grab it ourselves. And while the journey of creating our own opportunities may seem daunting at times, it’s ultimately far more rewarding than waiting for someone else to create our future for us.

Let’s be the ones who see possibilities instead of roadblocks. Let’s be the ones who stop waiting and start creating. Because when we take charge of our own destinies, we unlock a world of opportunities—ones we never imagined were possible.

I'm ready to create the future that I want. Are you?

What will you create today?

Truly,
Trish


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Getting fired on New Year’s Eve? That’s a tough way to start the year, but it’s not the end of your story🙅‍♀️💔

In my latest video, I share how to handle the emotional rollercoaster of unexpected job loss, the simple steps to take, and how to stay positive when everything feels uncertain.

Remember, sometimes getting let go is the Universe pushing you toward something better 🌟

If you’re going through something similar, or have been there before, I hope this video brings you some comfort and clarity. 💡 

You are not alone in this journey.

Don’t give up on your dreams—your next chapter is waiting. 🚀

Truly,
Trish

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We often chase success, thinking it will bring us happiness. But the truth is, happiness creates the foundation for true success. When you’re happy and fulfilled, you work better, connect better, and attract more of what you deserve. 💫

Focus on cultivating joy, gratitude, and balance in your life. When you feel good from the inside out, success will follow naturally. 🌿💖

Let’s start living for the joy, not just the outcome. 🌟

Truly,
Trish

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Strategies to combat #SelfDOUBT and build #CONFIDENCE in yourself 💜👉 https://youtube.com/shorts/jrX6-02QJu4


Struggling with self-doubt? You’re not alone. We all face those moments of uncertainty, but the key to growth is learning how to combat it and build unshakable confidence. 💪✨


In this #video, I’ll share powerful strategies to silence that inner critic, embrace your strengths, and start trusting yourself every step of the way.


Confidence isn’t something you’re born with—it’s something you cultivate with the right mindset and actions. Ready to take control and step into your full potential? Let's do this. 🙌🔥


Truly,
Trish


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