2 Tips To Take Control Of Your Destiny

Updated: Jan 13, 2020

One of the first things successful people realize is the old adage, “If it is to be, it is up to me.”

For you, that means that your success, your course is up to you. This doesn’t mean that you do it all alone. It simply means that you take responsibility for your life and your career.

Too many people today look at an opportunity and figure it is up to someone else to make sure they get it. They wait and wait, figuring that it is up to someone else. And then the wait is over, and it is too late to do anything. Their life is over and they are filled with regret.

But this isn’t true for you. You know that you must take responsibility for your life. It is up to you.

The fact is, nobody else is going to do it for you. You must do it yourself.

Now, some people might think, That’s a lot of responsibility. But here’s what I think: That is the best news you can ever hear. You get to choose your life. Hundreds of millions of people all around the world would give anything to live in the situation you do—to have the opportunity to take control of their destiny. “It is up to you” is a great blessing!

How can you take control of your destiny?

Check out the video below to find out now:


Bad things can happen to you, yes, but do you choose to accept it as your fate?

Things can turn out not as you planned, yes, does that make you a failure?

There are other skilled people in the world, yes, does that make you less capable or less blessed? Rather than make yourself feel like others have it better than you, how about challenging yourself to see it in such a way that it is a blessing to know that you can always learn new skills from others to widen your own skill sets?

Relationships can fail, yes, but does that mean there is absolutely no other person out there meant for you? How about trying a different perspective: after an unfruitful relationship, now you know better what is the kind of partner you actually want in your life for the long term.


Patience is really so important.

Just because something isn't happening instantly doesn't mean that it isn't working. They say, "Rome wasn't built in a day.", an adage attesting to the need for time to create great things. What you need to understand is that the same applies to your life.

Learn to practice patience and trust that if you have put in all the necessary effort and planning into making your goals happen, then trust that the Universe also needs time to put everything in motion to align its energy to work in your favor.

Even miracles take time.

But believe me, when your dreams do materialize, it will be beautiful.🌷

Once you’ve watched or read through this article, I’d love to hear from you.

In what moments have you felt like you've lost control of your life? What steps did you take to help you take back control of your destiny? Do share your knowledge and experience in the comments below.

Share as much detail as you can. Many lovely souls come here for insight and inspiration. Your story may be just what someone else needs to have a major breakthrough.

I really hope these tips I shared will help you learn to believe in your power, have the courage to make life happen for you, and create your own destiny 😘

Thank you so much for watching, sharing, and adding your thoughts. Be fearless and go create the story of your life just as you envisioned it.

Live strong, and have the courage to create a life you love because your happiness matters.

With SO much 💖,


P.S. Have a question you’d love to ask me? Do give me your Q on my page Ask Trish Anything and I'll personally get back to you with some empowering steps to help guide you through your challenges. I look forward to serve and help you towards a brighter future, a future you've always dreamt of. Do give me your Q here.

Knowing when to ask for help and guidance is not weakness. If anything, it's a strength.


1) The Power: Rhonda Byrnes

2) The Secret (A must-read life-transforming book)

3) The Magic

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