HOW TO BE SUCCESSFUL IN LIFE

Updated: Jan 13

Let's be real, who doesn't want to be successful? Even I do. But have you ever paused to think for a moment what does success mean to you?


If you've ever had any one of the following thoughts or feelings:

  • feeling like a failure

  • feel as if you've achieved nothing in life

  • think achieving success is near impossible

  • wondered how do people become successful

  • what habits do successful people actually practise on a daily basis

Then today's show is a must watch for you.


Feeling 'Stuck' or Frustrated? How Does Certain People Become Successful?


It is good to have healthy goals, and to strive to better ourselves. However, we as humans tend to fall into the social comparison trap. The Social comparison theory was first put forth in 1954 by psychologist Leon Festinger, who hypothesized that we make comparisons as a way of evaluating ourselves. At its root, the impulse is connected to the instant judgments we make of other people—a key element of the brain's social-cognition network that can be traced to the evolutionary need to protect oneself and assess threats.


According to Thomas Mussweiler, a professor of organizational behavior at London Business School, he says, "Inevitably, we relate information about others to ourselves. It's one of the most basic ways we develop an understanding of who we are, what we're good at, and what we're not so good at. It happens not only in a strategic manner, but also spontaneously and automatically whenever we are confronted with others. Even when you're faced with a standard that's extreme, first you compare, then you correct for the outcomes."


The effects of upward and downward comparisons depend on how we process the information. Self-improvement occurs when an upward comparison inspires us to try harder. Self-enhancement can take place when we note our similarities to someone superior (She and I went to the same college!) or play up our differences with someone inferior (He's not as dedicated to his work as am I). And as for the self-hate happens when we compare upward only to note differences that feel insurmountable (She's more beautiful than I'll ever be) or dwell on commonalities with someone we disdain (That loser is unemployed, too).


Good news - you don't have to wonder, feel frustrated or compare yourself to those people you deem 'successful'. You can start to create your own success and a life you love today.



4 Simple SMART Steps To Achieve Your Success


In the video below, you'll be walked through 4 steps which touches on the importance of creating a specific goal, the right mindset needed for the pursuit of success using the strategies from the book The Magic of Thinking Big by David J Schwartz, how our external factors can make a big impact on our attempt in achieving our goals, and lastly, using a S.M.A.R.T. plan to get you towards the success you want.


Time and again, there have been researches done about the effectiveness of goal-setting by using a concrete, well thought out plan, and how it can increase the rate of successfully achieving your goals. A study did by Michigan State University stated that participants with written goals had a 33 percent higher chance of achieving goals as compared to those participants with unwritten goals. Also, an article written by Forbes about goal-setting, Neuropsychologists have identified that people who very vividly describe or picture their goals are anywhere from 1.2 to 1.4 times more likely to successfully accomplish their goals. These studies shows the value of taking the time to write down your goals, create an action plan and develop a system of support to hold yourself accountable for achieving your goals.


I understand that it might seem a little daunting at first when you think about having to look at every single specific detail and plan, that's why I created a S.M.A.R.T. goal planner to help you get started. It comes with a step by step how to use a S.M.A.R.T. plan to capture and analyze what course of action you need to take in order to achieve your goals, then without a doubt, your goals will become a reality, and success is yours.


*** SPECIAL PROMO: Use coupon code "mysmartgoal" upon checkout to get it for FREE. Offer valid until 31.08.19 ***


As you watch the video and reflect, do also take down important notes to help catapult you towards achieving your goals. Visually seeing and reading your words does gives you extra motivation to take action. If you don’t have a pen and paper handy, type them out in the comments below.



Once you’ve watched, I’d love to hear from you.


What does success mean to you? and what are the goals that you would like to achieve in order to feel successful?


Share as much detail as you can. Many lovely souls come here for insight and inspiration. Your story may be just what someone else needs to have a major breakthrough.


Thank you so much for watching, sharing, and adding your way of thinking. Remember to practise having the right mindset on a daily basis, analyze the type of people you keep around you as well as the daily habits you practise, reflect on whether they are assisting you towards the right direction, and stay focused on your goals with a S.M.A.R.T. plan. Every little action you focus on, on a daily basis, shapes the way you think, and thereby creating the success you want


Live strong, and have courage to create a life you love because your happiness matters.



With SO much ❤️,

XO




P.S. Have a question you’d love to ask me personally? I’m planning to produce more Ask Trish Anything episodes and publish them every bi-weekly. With this said, I’d love to hear from you. I look forward to guide and empower you towards a brighter future, a future you've always envisioned and dreamt of. Do give me your Q here.


P.P.S. Knowing when to ask for help and guidance is NOT weakness. If anything, it's a strength



#thrivewithtrish #achievesuccess #goalsetting #achieveyourgoals #smartgoals #successmindset #dailyhabitsofmillionaires #dailyhabitsofsuccessfulpeople

TRISH & CO.

30161 Hannover,

Niedersachsen, Germany.

CONNECT WITH TRISH

  • Thrive with Trish - YouTube Channel
  • Facebook Social Icon
  • Instagram Social Icon
  • Twitter Social Icon
  • LinkedIn Social Icon
  • Pinterest

Contact Trish for questions on products & counseling services

©2020 Trish & Co. All rights reserved.