Having your kindness or love abused doesn’t make you foolish, it just goes to show the other person’s true colours.

I’ve recently been screwed over pretty brutally and it hurt REAL bad. Not gonna lie. I opened up myself by being kind, by giving love, being my genuine self. In return, I get burnt.


A colleague of mine, recently experienced getting their #kindness repaid with demands and critiques.


A client of mine, gave their #trust to someone, only to be lied to in return.


Safe to say, it happens - to all of us, at some point or other in our lives.


It is f***ing painful when people abuse our kindness or love. Makes us want to shut down, close our hearts, and just… avoid the pain. Sounds like the logical step to take right?


But I implore you, doing this doesn’t protect you from pain, it stops you from experiencing #LIFE - all the beauty and pain that comes with it.


Life is like going on a bicycle ride. We can’t cycle to enjoy the feel of the wind on our skin but hope that we will NEVER have an accident. Life doesn’t work like that.
Joy and pain comes hand in hand, whether we like it or not.


To not want to feel pain or love, is to close your heart from LIVING or FEELING.


Plus, people who abuse your kindness or love doesn’t make you foolish, it just goes to show that that person’s #truecolours really are.
At least now you know their true personality. Better late than never right?
Now you are #wiser on how to deal with them OR, if possible - stay FAR away from them!


Don’t ever give up on being kind, trusting people, or falling in love, because as much as there are wolves out there, there are also really amazing and kind people out there worth caring and connecting with🌻


Truly,
Trish


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